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By
Margaret L. Frick
Member Number 5
Through the years our N.E.W. Clubhouse has developed into a helpful
place for mentally ill people who have no safe place to go while adjusting
to life again after some episode -- usually hospitalization, or tying
new medicine, or bored with staying at home and fearful of public stigma.
N.E.W. Clubhouse members discover others are struggling, too, with the
debilitating effects of serious mental illness; they are not alone.
We don’t all have the same illness but each of us have to go through
days of adjusting. Here, we feel free to comment about feeling horrible
from the illness or sleepy from medication or whatever is bothering
us, and no one will treat us as if we aren’t worth the trouble to function
again or improve our individual choices for more quality living.
I was one of the early members who had the challenge, along with three
staff persons, of deciding if our clubhouse would be like those in other
states. We decided to have a community thrift store after visiting the
town’s then existing stores. We started three basic units of work to
help our sick brains to function in various ways. Besides the donor-sparked
store, we began the kitchen unit to provide a noon meal and clerical
unit for keeping necessary paperwork. We had a few more N.E.W. members
when our logo was discussed and developed to picture the clubhouse’s
purpose. The N.E.W. name stands for "Needed. Expected. and Wanted."
So our logo for the original store sign and our stationery showed a
dark green mountain over which you see a rising sun with its healing
rays stretching out on each side of the mountain. It reminds us of the
difficult uphill climb we are making to feel the healing rays from the
approaching sun as we become our old selves again.
Outsiders rarely have a chance to appreciate the value of the clubhouse’s
staff monitoring us even while equally sharing in the jobs needed to
be done daily in each unit. I recall one member had a problem talking.
As he did kitchen work -- mostly making desserts -- he became his old
self, enjoying telling us about his model plane-making hobby! Over and
over we see these remarkable results. Many become employable, functioning
well in their jobs at restaurants or in a store or offices. What helps
is the need to use that brain in unit jobs; we re-learn skills and gain
self-confidence and self-esteem with each successful day at the clubhouse.
N.E.W.
Center 3109 S. 70th Fort Smith, AR (479)452-9490
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